While a relationship can be an absolutely amazing, fulfilling connection between two people, most people, especially young people, don’t start a relationship on that basis - they’re driven by biological drive and hormones. However, when you’re old enough where your hormones stop driving the car, the prospect of dying alone can become a blessing. Either commit to a relationship as something you want and be willing to put in the time and effort it’s going to take, or wait out the worst of it until your mind calms itself down in your 40s. Think of everything from your mid-teens to your mid-40s as a Pon Farr, with the exact same possible treatments.
While a relationship can be an absolutely amazing, fulfilling connection between two people, most people, especially young people, don’t start a relationship on that basis - they’re driven by biological drive and hormones. However, when you’re old enough where your hormones stop driving the car, the prospect of dying alone can become a blessing. Either commit to a relationship as something you want and be willing to put in the time and effort it’s going to take, or wait out the worst of it until your mind calms itself down in your 40s. Think of everything from your mid-teens to your mid-40s as a Pon Farr, with the exact same possible treatments.