• InvertedParallax@lemm.ee
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    19 hours ago

    I went to high school in the south, I’m not white.

    The hate is not something you can process, the worst we see online, the Andrew tates, the people calling for all brown people to be deported to El Salvador, that’s Disney compared to them.

    Becauae it was all they had, and the hate infused them down to the cells, such that it was all they had keeping them going.

    Trump took the lid off, let them feel more comfortable talking in public.

    But these are people who casually discuss how the only way to heal the world is to exterminate all the Muslims and jews, how we should nuke China now because we can, and how atheists and anybody more left than Trump needs to be castrated now for the good of America.

    To people shocked at the toxicity, I think you grew up in far more sheltered places.

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      13 hours ago

      Dude I grew up dirt poor on govt cheese in the 70s and 8os. Homeless at times, hunted and fished more for food than bought it

      Sheltered? Nah.

      Saddened… Dismayed? Yes

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        12 hours ago

        Maybe sheltered isn’t the right word.

        You grew up in a nurturing home.

        Everyone didn’t have that luxury, and many grew up to be assholes.

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          1 hour ago

          I watched my father try to kill my mother and was on the streets at 16. Nice try

          I don’t say that in a mean way. I will not pretend to know your story. I can’t. Especially those who are poc( I don’t know yours and am not trying to be personal so I’m not asking )

          What I’m saying is I can’t understand a poc’s full experience. I’ll never have to tell my kid to watch out for cops because of his skin color.

          I can, however, understand how others sink into the anger despair and rage. I know what it’s like to wake in a jail cell, I know what hardship really is.

          I also know that it is never overcome through cruelty. In fact that puts everyone, including the perpetrator, in a worse place.

          So again. We don’t have to be this shitty to each other.