• nico198X@feddit.nl
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    1 年前

    cool bro. you do you. you’re just not the guy i’m looking for, i guess. maybe the next one.

            • Cowbee [he/they]@lemmy.ml
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              This is going to sound incredibly facetious, but I’ve had multiple dozens of people directly thank me for reaching them. I can’t reach everyone, of course, but I know for a fact that I do reach many people, so your assertion that because I can’t seem to reach you that I must not be able to reach anyone is just not true.

              I could absolutely be better at reaching people, of course I could, but I also know that different strategies work for different people, and some people simply don’t want to be reached to begin with.

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        1 年前

        they would be able to engage me, the human in front of them, without all the baggage of the movement establishing preconceptions.

        • Cowbee [he/they]@lemmy.ml
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          In an ideal world, the Red Scare would not have existed, and we could discuss the genuine merits and struggles faced internally and externally in AES without that clouding discussion. Its why I prefer talking with comrades about the shortcomings in AES, as I know they aren’t doing it to undermine the achievements but to legitimately identify problems to solve.

          I think, despite all of the struggles, that I do an okay job with engaging people open to listening.