• (⬤ᴥ⬤)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    4 months ago

    yes and half of the trans people on tumblr call themselves trannies.
    the difference is the same as watching a movie with flashing lights after sitting through the epilepsy warning and getting your brain actually blasted by the day 1 cyberpunk 2077 braindance cutscene. one’s a choice, the other just happens to you.

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        4 months ago

        and people like you are exactly why content warnings should be standard and why every site/app with user generated content should have a word filter option.
        that said, your discomfort should not prohibit others from expressing themselves

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                4 months ago

                there’s other trans communities and other social norms online than r/mtf on reddit. People should be allowed to call themselves what they like imo, and you should probably try to make sure of the user’s actual stance before policing their language.

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                    4 months ago

                    Your original comment was saying that the term is inherently derogatory and offensive. I’m trying to explain that in this case I don’t accept the framework of a derogatory terms but rather derogatory usages. That’s like, my opinion. As a self identified tranny, who still identifies as such in a non porn context. As do lots of my friends on twitter.

                    Feel like we’ve already been over all this back when some people online decided “queer” is always a slur and started aggressively trying to police people from using it…

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        4 months ago

        Girls call themselves sluts, depends how the demographic embraces the word, my gf hates the term princess but likes it when i degrade her