Change is hard, I get it, if this change is upsetting, I’d personally figure out the automation piece. it took me a bit but after getting it going it’s rock solid. If using Linux of some flavor, acme.sh works really well.

It’s not it’s just about control.

Well you see, if you abort the dog it can’t be jealous, if you abort the cat, it won’t make the dog jealous, if you abort the child, then there was nobody to give the cat too in the first place, or something like that