• danc4498@lemmy.world
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    18 hours ago

    I think the movie was very subtle about these things. It’s 100% there, but if you’re not in the specific mindset to notice then, it’s easy to miss.

    Especially if you think wishing a girl loved you should work. If his wish is reasonable, then the rest of the movie is unfair to him.

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      15 hours ago

      it’s easy to miss.

      Really? I didn’t think it was subtle at all. Even pretty early, when he drives her home and fails to tell her what he thinks about her, I found it pretty obvious that everything that happens to him is a consequence of his own actions. At this point it can still be excused by him being insecure but as soon as he uses the willow, it is very clear that he doesn’t care even a tiny bit about what she wants, he just wants to own her.

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        11 hours ago

        The only part he can be excused for is making the wish, imo. It is a reaction born out of his frustration with his lack of confidence, and he doesn’t know that it will really work.

        Once it became clear that the wish had a real effect, and he chose to ignore the real Nikki’s suffering and indulge himself in the lie, he became a complete villain.

        If he had instead wished for the courage to tell Nikki how he felt, completely different movie.

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        16 hours ago

        45 year old me thought it was obvious too. But I think 20 year old me wouldn’t have. He was a simp