• daggermoon@piefed.world
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    2 days ago

    I don’t think that’s entirely true. All of my problems weren’t because i’m ugly. It’s because no one really believed in and encouraged me when I needed it most. I got trapped in a cycle of self-loathing while still being at least somewhat attractive imo.

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        2 days ago

        I feel like out of every privilege we actually have a/b testing people do frequently. When you gain or lose 100+ pounds you can definitely go from being ugly to being pretty or vice versa. And anyone honest with themselves recognizes that when you’re pretty a lot more doors are open to you.