• TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
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    8 hours ago

    so no matter what it is, it’s still your fault for not making her comfortable, got it.

    reminds of the time my ex broke up with me because I said I wasn’t going to pay off her 150K in debt, and she said that meant I didn’t lover and it upset her very much. Clearly my lack of emotional intelligence there, though it was a financially intelligence move.

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      8 hours ago

      That comment clearly says it’s worth it to make your partner comfortable in a relationship, not assigning blame.