people choose to be miserable by staying in those relationships.

they also choose to make those relationships miserable.

I’m single and what I notice is how many folks I meet… who are just like actively choosing to be miserable and convinced a marriage will make them more miserable but still actively want to get married. especially as I don’t share that mentality.

and often these people text me after a date and tell me what a wonderful time they had… and I don’t text them back.