Changing my part of the deal also by not showing up.

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    This comment is such a red flag, lol. If she brought someone else that means she didn’t feel safe alone with you, and apparently you’re only thinking about how that affects you.

    Lemmy is such a boys club. It’s astonishing that this is top comment. And my reply will get downvoted by the boys club, as per usual.

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      We hung out by ourselves prior to that multiple times, so I doubt it’s that. Perhaps her friend was around and she brought her along instead of sending her home, but a heads up would’ve been nice.

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        Excellent! Your first comment didn’t make it sound like you were thinking about anything other than your own frustration and came off a certain way that I am very used to on Lemmy. Your second comment is a completely different tone and makes me feel like a jerk, lol.

        Maybe she thought things were moving too fast?